Guys advice to girls on dating
We may try to act or look a certain way so that our date likes us.
It’s a confusing set of double standards and antiquated rules that make it very difficult for us to know which move is the right one. When a man and a woman get together it is likely that he will have some hobbies, tendencies, or habits that she doesn’t like.
Men have complained about these problems in various male-oriented forums before, but here, now, I drag their 10 biggest complaints into the daylight so that everyone can finally see how women make complainers out of men. We only need look at the example of going dutch on a first date.
” and we say, “Nothing.” You figure this must be a lie, and decide that we aren’t willing to communicate with you. Say a man likes to play golf and has played for years. Without it he will burn up with anxiety and frustration over life’s little indignities.
Remember, he fell in love with the dynamic “you” who has her own interests and passions, who wanted to make him a part of your life, not the whole darn thing.
Men are attracted to confident women who get the concept of “interdependence.” Interdependence requires that you’re both independent and dependent; that means you create a sacred space for your relationship as well as sacred space for your work, passions and friends. While you might think it is cute to have three glasses of wine at dinner, he does not. If you need to loosen up before a date, watch a comedy right before you leave or take a walk. One guy told us that he went on a first date and his date wouldn’t order any food because she wasn’t “hungry.” But then every time he cut a piece of steak on his plate, she reached over and ate it!