Dating older man widow
LTK: What groundwork did you do to prepare for this book?
) So here I am in love with a guy who hasn't even removed his wifes clothes or shoes from the closets. My advise is to stay away from anyone that just lost someone. I have not heard one happy story, Has anyone married and lived a happy life with a recent widower? We are just the buffers to help them get through it. The question is really whether you can handle your jealousy regarding his feelings for his deceased wife since you feel you are competing with her for his affections.
Some of the most terrific interviews conducted were with men.
Then I did exhaustive research about women's health issues, how to make senses (touch, sight, smell, etc.) work for you, the best places to meet men (both geographically - where in the country are the most single mature men - and how to meet them in your own home town).
I understand people grieve at their own pace and I have never put pressure on him, however. People grieve in different ways, and this man is apparently not yet ready to remove his wife's clothing and shoes from the closet, either because that would be too emotionally painful for him to do, or because it might give him comforting memories to see these things, or both.
I am starting to think that him and I are not going to go anywhere. It is something you might ask him about quite directly.